I know a woman who is extremely progressive in her beliefs and because of this orientation she is surrounded by people who agree with her on every single point of the narrative. So naturally, she and her friends are squarely behind the Zionism = Genocide talking point. But she has a very old friend who was also on the Left who is also Jewish. And she was relating to this friend a story about a high school student graduating in America who was a Palestinian refugee and who spoke movingly about her experiences in living in and then leaving Israel and the Palestinian areas. What she told me was that her friend became extremely angry by any attempt to portray Palestinians as victims and Israelis as aggressors. She asked me if this attitude makes sense and whether she could somehow bring her friend around to her way of thinking.
I was adamant that her friend would never change her point of view about who were the aggressors and who were the victims in the Israeli/Palestinian conflict. I said that to this woman the Israelis were more than countrymen, they were tantamount to family. And then I went further and said I thought it was very likely that her opposing opinions might mean that this woman might not even consider her a friend any longer.
I told her that I have lost friends and had angry confrontations even with family over deep differences in belief and ideology. I am of the opinion that family still represents the most important relation and must override even differences in ideology but the way forward involves agreeing to disagree and avoiding the subjects that will trigger anger. So, I hazarded the opinion that if indeed this woman was now unfriendly toward her, it would probably require an acknowledgement of the seriousness of the difference and an agreement by both to avoid this irreconcilable difference of opinion in the future to preserve the friendship. Of course, I’m not sure how good my advice was but it was my honest opinion.
So, what’s interesting about this story? I think the radical nature of the new progressives is causing considerable strain on the Left. Just as the trans-ideology caused rifts with feminists and even lesbians so the Gaza orthodoxy is causing a very considerable portion of American Jews to revolt against this plank of the Left’s platform. And even beyond this there is someone like Democrat Senator Fetterman who refuses to reject the Israelis even in the face of incredible abuse by his own party. So, if the radical fringe of the Democrats continues to control places like New York City and Los Angeles I think they will continue to alienate significant portions of the Democrat coalition. And that is all to the good. It gives the rest of the country a clear idea of exactly what the Left will do if they take over.
So, I ran into a case where the radical Left is tearing up old friendships. Possibly this will give some people pause. But either way it’s an indication of just how toxic this new radicalism really is.